​WIFE: ROMANTIC & SPIRITUAL 

Before I and my husband started planning to move to Shagamu, we always discuss to revisit dealings of God with both of us as singles, the revelations, the assignment, the vision we see coming to reality and everything, though I didn’t see myself in Lagos after marriage, the only thing I needed the Holy Spirit to *settle in my heart* was the instructions to leave all and move to Shagamu for ministry. That was not cheap. Smile 
I have never doubted the Holy Spirit in the life of my husband but I noticed the relocation thing was just yet to *settle in my heart*
Sometime later, I went for School Of Disciples Convention at the Redeemed Camp with great burden in my heart but the Holy Spirit took over. 
As the message was going on, I suddenly felt like I was all alone in the whole auditorium. I saw like in a trance, Abraham with Sarah behind him, moving out of his father’s house . I saw Us and I broke down in tears, it was a great flow of tears, praying in tongues and laying down my struggles at the feet of Jesus. In a moment, I experienced a lifting in my spirit and I was inexplicably joyful and ready. 
On getting home, I gist my husband about the program and deliberately left out my experience. Laughs
He asked me again, “Is that all about the program?”
I shared my experience with him and to my surprise, he jumped for joy saying he was praying that “Lord if you have spoken to me please confirm to my wife today”
That settled it. 
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Kenneth Hagin & wife
In one of his books, he said two years after, he had a burden to return to his former church but he wasn’t too sure of going back there. 
He searched his heart and resisted going back to the church. This rolled for 30 days yet he was still asking “Lord, are you talking to me about going back there? Are you trying to give me some guidance? Then he said, finally, Lord please if you are leading me on this issue 
“TALK TO MY WIFE, SHE CAN LISTEN TOO”

Then he waited for another 30days.”  while doing dishes together in the kitchen, he asked the wife if the Lord ministered anything to her. She confirmed the leading to return to their former church. 
That settled it 
…………………………………………………..Aside from being a romantic wife, the man needs a spiritual wife. A wife who’s got connected to God. 

As a wife, you are the prophetess of your husband, a spiritual guard or watch woman over his soul or spiritual well-being. His prayer partner, no woman can passionately pray for him as you should. 
We must take this responsibility very seriously. 

To fulfill this duty, we must align with the Lord in our personal walk with Him. 
SINGLES

You can’t ruin your relationship with God in a bid to satisfy him with fornication and still expect him to respect your relationship with God. 

In the journey of marriage, there are seas to cross, mountains to destroy, you both will need God at every point. 
As individuals, there are moments both of you will be helpless, wishing you have the power to help each other but hands down! 
“I know how you feel” either of you will say
“I know you love me but dear You don’t know how I feel” you will realize 

Only the link you have with the Lord will sustain you at this time. Your relationship with the Holy Spirit will give you true comfort. Because He feels what you feel bone deep.
As a woman, your husband must be able to have that trust his spiritual destiny is safe in your hands.
It is good to be a romantic wife but you must be a romantic spiritual woman, Worded, Prayer Packed, Spirit-controlled and guard your relationship with God. 
” When he (PILATE) was set down on the judgment seat, HIS WIFE sent unto him, saying, Have thou nothing to do with that just man (JESUS) : for I have suffered many things this day in a DREAM because of him.”
Matthew 27:19

” Ecclesiastes 4:9-12  (KJV)
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up…

And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Think about this. 
Esther Ebunoluwa Omoniyi 

omoniyiesther1@gmail.com