SOMEONE TOLD MY WIFE THAT MARRIAGE WILL SHUT HER UP

…Just as we were about to wed, some emergency marriage counselors chatted my wife on Facebook and was expressing that after marriage now, will they still be hearing from her blah blah…that many ladies have gotten married and they have disappeared….

I can’t remember my reaction to it but I am sure it would have been laughter and maybe disgust later

But I don’t blame her sha…she doesn’t know the person she is getting married to… I AM FUEL, FIRE, DYNAMITE, THE LION, THE INDABOSKI OF FIRE ENHANCING KINGDOM 藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍藍

OKAY OTM, CALM DOWN…LET ME BE SERIOUS

…having studied Genesis and the assignment God gave to Adam, chief of which is naming, I renamed my wife ‘EBUNOLUWA”… meaning the gift of God (it wasn’t a name given to her by her dad) and I was determined that everything that God has put inside of her will burst forth and be a blessing to the world.

I recognized my role as a groomer and I was determined to fulfil that role. Many of the articles she writes, I get to edit them and adjust some things…at a time she wanted to be writing too much grammar, I asked her to focus on her style because that’s her unique flavour to the world (if you follow her, I am sure you love her style)

I drive her to ministrations, I respond to her invitations and book appointments for her. I ensure her voice is heard loudly…there was even a day I was invited to speak in a place, I told her to speak because I perceived she was the one that the Lord gave the word for the day.

Some men feel threatened by the success of their wives, I just wonder at that foolishness (sorry if this is too harsh) but if it is my wife that is successful, how should I be worried about that? But then it shows some insecurities of people. You want to conquer your wife so that you can be the HORSEBAND…ehn

Me, I take pride in it seriously…imagine when you introduce her as Esther Ebunoluwa Omoniyi…I feel so proud… that’s my wife, I say some times.

When she is going out some times and I am checking her clothes “I say, you can’t wear that, you are Esther Ebunoluwa Omoniyi, the wife of OTM…”

Most of her clothes I have to choose it for her when she wants to buy because she must bloom…that’s my job as the husband.

I know some may say “I have chop vegetable” …yes ke, if I don’t chop her vegetable, is it another woman’s vegetable I will chop?

I am just obeying scriptures ni…drink waters from your own cistern

I am committed to her becoming the best because I am a husbandman.

Man of God, if your wife disappears after marriage…If she doesn’t look more beautiful after marriage…just take responsibility. See that peace you want, it is in her finding fulfilment in herself…(that’s a good word right there for a smart husband)…

The moment she is fulfilled, she will give you so much peace of mind and the other room will be explosive

Maybe you are saying, “My own wife is not good” …well, be the Jesus in your marriage for her…Sacrifice and sacrifice…pray over her…prophesy over her…call her what you want her to be…

Is it that we don’t sometimes have disagreements? No o…we do have…like I mentioned in a previous write up, we have systems set up to handle it.

…we spoke to one of our mentors on one occasion and he told me to write all the good things about my wife as many as I can remember…as I was writing it, I was affirming it over her…infact I still have it saved somewhere…

Let me close with this, it is your responsibility as a partner in a marriage to cover your own side of the duty, let heaven and earth justify you that you have done your bit. You can’t refrain from doing your part because the other person refuses to do his/her part.

I wish you well on your journey.

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© Omoniyi Temitope Mayowa
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P.S: I DEDICATE THIS TO MY AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL AND POWERFUL WIFE, ESTHER EBUNOLUWA OMONIYI and all the amazing women out there as you celebrate the INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY.